Rebuilding Connection. Deepening Trust. Awakening the Body.

I love working with couples. When two people are willing to turn toward each other with curiosity and courage, the bond that can be created is extraordinary. At the heart of my couples' work is this truth: Intimacy begins in the body.

What Is Intimacy For You?

One of the first things we explore together is what intimacy actually means for you as a couple.

Because intimacy is not one-size-fits-all. For some, it’s emotional closeness. For others, it’s sexual connection. For many, it’s feeling safe, seen, and chosen.

We unpack what intimacy looks like, feels like, and means within your relationship not what social media, past partners, or old conditioning have told you it should be.

Yes, communication matters deeply. But in my work, communication doesn’t just live in words.

We work somatically.

• What happens in your body when your partner speaks?

• Where do you tighten?

• Where do you soften?

• What sensations arise when you feel rejected, desired, unseen, or connected?

When couples learn to tune into their own nervous systems and begin to notice each other’s something shifts. Reactivity softens. Curiosity grows. Alignment becomes possible.

Your body is constantly communicating. We learn how to listen.

Working With Arousal and Erotic Blueprinting

Many couples struggle not because desire is “gone,” but because arousal patterns are misunderstood.

In our sessions, we may explore:

•  Your individual arousal patterns

•  How you initiate and respond to intimacy

•  Where brakes and accelerators exist in your nervous system

•  Practices to consciously build and expand arousal

We also look at core erotic themes, the deeper emotional imprints that shape what turns you on and why. These themes often stem from early attachment experiences and relational dynamics. When understood, they can become powerful doorways into connection rather than sources of confusion or shame.

Instead of pathologising differences, we explore how your unique erotic wiring can complement each other.

Creating Intimacy Intentionally

Intimacy doesn’t just “happen.” It is co-created.

Together, we work with:

• Somatic alignment practices

• Eye-gazing and presence exercises

• Nervous system co-regulation

• Sensation-based exploration

• Guided communication frameworks

• Erotic mind-mapping

Everything we do is grounded in consent, safety, and nervous system awareness.

The Body Leads the Way

Your body drives my work. Your body already knows what it wants, what it fears, what it longs for. My role is not to tell you what intimacy should look like. My role is to facilitate space, offer tools, and guide you back to the wisdom already living within you.

When couples learn to trust their bodies and allow their partner to do the same intimacy becomes less about performance and more about presence. And from presence, real connection grows.

In-person sessions are based in Invercargill, New Zealand. Online sessions are held via Google Meet.

90 minutes in duration - $150NZD